Dear self,
Olga fitted us perfect today! I just love this dress! I know, Self, we're already married, but we can pretend it's the first time. Live a little!
I can't wait for us to see our husband decked out in that Tux! Just one more day and we're reciting our marriage vows! Hope he got the lines straight, but even if he doesn't, we're going to be in front of that priest renewing!
Glad my best friends husband is not attending. That's all we need... him pulling a Hoffman straight out of the Graduate shouting at our husband "Nicole! Nicole!" Ooh, that give me shivers!
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Hi Mariam
ReplyDeleteI called by to thank you for your visit and taking the time to comment.
This is the first non-picture blog I have visited... so naturly I read the posts.
My nateral noseyness as now kicked in and I will be back to see how your writing pans out...... Good luck for the weekend and the new blog venture.
Tom
hmm.. I LOVE HAPPY ENDINGS :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by, Tom. Things are not good.
ReplyDeleteIman, happy endings don't exist, at least not for me.
Mariam,
ReplyDeleteIs there any way you can accept the situation if he's honest about it? It doesn't sound to me like he's gay. It sounds to me like he's primarily straight with homoerotic tendencies. (i.e. to be gay you have to want to fall in love with a man. Homoerotic dudes are dudes that want to have sex with men but want to have romantic relationships with women.)
If his desires for men are strong he probably will need to explore that, but that doesn't mean he loves you any less. And he obviously likes having sex with you.
In the same way that several of my male friends don't care when their wives/girlfriends have lesbian affairs, I know two girls whose boyfriends every so often "play with the boys" but do so safely and honestly, so it doesn't hurt their relationship.
bart_calendar, if he would have told me about this way back, I might have accepted it, specially if he shared. I can't stand cheats! He should have been straight with me.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I understand. The lying part of it sucks.
ReplyDeleteI don't care if my long term girlfriend has "fun" with dudes or babes during the months she's living in Rome, but if she lied to me about it that would irk me.
What sucks in your husband's case is that he was dumb to lie about it in the first place. There are many, many women, who are really turned on my bisexual dudes. He could have been with one of them and not broken your heart and not had to deal with all the stress he put upon himself.